speak up: don't pay someone else to do it for you.

In my experience, I’ve found that Christianity is almost never about searching for parishioners giving money so that others can believe and sacrifice on their behalf (as well as that system might work for those of us both taking and giving the money). Instead, the way of Jesus is constantly about searching for partners and participants and prophets and priests willing to put themselves on the chopping block for the sake of the world, oftentimes in front of a mob of angry religious people demanding their deaths.

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